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Book Reviews for Ceremonies

Looking for the 'perfect' reading for your wedding, civil union or naming ceremony?
Here are my treasured favourites to get you started.

Weddings/Civil Unions

Heartsongs: Readings for Weddings"Heartsongs - Readings for Weddings", Ed. Pinky Agnew

Pinky is a well known celebrant based in Wellington. This is a thoughtful selection under different headings like – laughter and love, you and me love. The book is a great resource and would make a beautiful gift as well.

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Ceremonies and Celebrations"Ceremonies & Celebrations", by Dally R. Messenger

Dally has been a mover and shaker in the celebrant field in Australia for many years. This book gives simple outlines of a variety of ceremonies as well as readings - a good basic book.

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Weddings from the Heart: Contemporary and Traditional Ceremonies for an Unforgettable Wedding"Weddings from the Heart: Contemporary and Traditional Ceremonies for an Unforgettable Wedding", by Daphne Rose Kingma

As the name suggests it is full of heart centered readings linked to each stage of the ceremony. In addition Daphne gives example ceremonies and special ritual ideas.

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Naming

Poems and Readings for Births and Christenings"Poems and readings for Births and Christenings", Ed. Julia Watson

With the trend to naming ceremonies now rather than christening this little book is a simple resource. The readings are grouped, e.g. The finest baby in the world … and cover a range of traditional through to more modern writings.

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Fabulous Multi Ceremony books

Great Occasions: Readings for the Celebration of Birth, Coming-Of-Age, Marriage, and Death"Great Occasions - readings for the celebration of Birth, Coming-of-Age, Marriage & Death", Ed. Carl Seaburg

A truly fabulous large book - I discover new work every time I delve into it. More suited to serious readers and for use by celebrants.

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How to Bury a Goldfish: And Other Ceremonies and Celebrations for Everyday Life"how to bury a goldfish and other ceremonies and celebrations for everyday life", by Virginia Lang and Louise Nayer, Skinner Houston Books 2007

One of the appeals of this book is its simplicity. Most of the ceremonies can be done by individuals or families themselves, plus the many ideas will act as a stimulus for variations of your own. Ceremonies are grouped under the headings of Everyday, Beginnings, Fabulous Firsts, Red-Letter days, Transitions, Loss and Holidays.

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Life Prayers: From Around the World365 Prayers, Blessings, and Affirmations to Celebrate the H"Life Prayers - 365 prayers, blessings & affirmations to celebrate the human journey", Ed. Elizabeth Roberts & Elias Amidon

A must have for every household really. My copy is used very regularly for personal reading and ceremony. Eight chapters take us from Affirmations and Invocations to Earth Praises. The chapter on Initiation is further broken down into Birth, Coming of Age, Growing Older etc. An international selection of writers included.

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Lifesongs: Readings for Milestones"Lifesongs - Readings for Milestones", Ed. Pinky Agnew

Pinky has taken her concept for Heartsongs and given us this broader selection of readings taking us through life’s stages - again a beautiful book as a gift.

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Prayer Tree Gift Edition"The Prayer Tree", by Michael Leunig

Michael Leunig is an Australian cartoonist with a big, contemplative heart. A great gift book he ponders on “life’ from “asking for blessings on our contradictions” to “giving thanks for the invention of the handle”.

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Common Prayer Gift Edition"A Common Prayer - a cartoonist talks to God", by Michael Leunig

A beautiful gift and personal contemplation book Leunig offers up prayers for “the fragile ecology of the heart and mind”, and gives “thanks for places of simplicity and peace”. Leunig’s prayer books invite you back again and again.

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New Zealand/Aotearoa

Celebrating the Southern Seasons"Celebrating the Southern Seasons - Rituals for Aotearoa", Juliet Batten

This revised edition allows the reader to understand the traditional times and ways of celebrating and then be stimulated to celebrate ‘down under – kiwi style’. Each season has a chapter with ideas and resources for celebrating by yourself or with others – a fabulous stimulus to craft your own rituals.

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Spirit in a Strange Land"Spirit in a Strange Land: A selection of New Zealand Spiritual Verse", Ed. Paul Morris, Harry Ricketts & Mike Grimshaw

Thought provoking, joyous and unsettling explorations of the spiritual nature of New Zealand – there is a diverse range of work under seven headings Godzone, Holidays & Holy Days, Saints & Sinners, Troubled Souls, Jesus Alone, Book of the Land and Rebels & Recluses.

I use this book for personal contemplation and when I am seeking a deeper piece that reflects being a New Zealander.

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Spirit Abroad: A Second Selection of Spiritual Verse"Spirit Abroad: A Second Selection of New Zealand Spiritual Verse", Ed. Paul Morris, Harry Ricketts & Mike Grimshaw

Like it’s predecessor “Spirit in a Strange Land” this selection is not an easy read, yet for those of us seeking to make sense of being a New Zealander or living in this land it is another window to understanding the spiritual nature of Aotearoa. Six chapters this time – Tangata Whenua, The Heart of the Land/The Land of the Heart, ANZACS/what’s worth fighting for?, Welfare, Wharfies and Wealth, Location, This Location, Dis-location, and finally Tangata Pakeha.

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My Heart Goes Swimming: New Zealand Love Poems"My heart goes swimming - New Zealand Love Poems", Ed. Jenny Bornholdt and Gregory O'Brien

A delightful gift book - something for most poetry readers in here and again the colours and flavours of NZ shine through. Much used by me for both NZ and overseas couples who want a touch of Kiwi in their ceremony.

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"Firesong" by Anne Powell.

In a Matariki ceremony in May I used a beautiful poem from this collection as a meditation. I would like to share some of my thoughts about the book and invite you to have a read yourself.

The poetry is divided into three sections - space, people and spirit. I find I am drawn to different sections depending on my reasons for visiting.

When I was looking for a poem that spoke to the joy of meeting with a group of women friends I found "Here" in 'spirit';

"over cups of tea and coffee
the sacred becomes gathered warmth"

Or as I negotiate middle age how about " Hints for middle years" in 'people';

"You want to get
where you're going
even if you don't have a map
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And tune your breathing
to the rhythm of soul."

At once very personal and speaking to universal themes the poems deeply reflect my experience of nature in Aotearoa.

From "Back Beach" in 'place';

"If you lie down
on the back black beach
it irons away
your worries."

This is a book of poetry that I come back to again and again, often when I am looking for the "right words" for a friend or an occasion.

Anne Powell is described as "a Cenacle Sister living in Wellington. She is part of an international congregation of women whose mission is to companion people on their inner journeys as they seek meaning, purpose, wholeness, transformation . recovery of the sacred in the midst of life."

I feel companioned by Anne's poems as I seek the sacred in my everyday living.

Published by Steele Roberts Ltd. 1999, Firesong is still available, as is her next volume "Enough Clear Water" also published by Steele Roberts, 2001. www.womensbookshop.co.nz

 
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